To make sure we have the same expectations for our time together, I ask that all new friends review before our date.
A gentleman should act like a gentleman as I will always remain composed and lady-like. I do not tolerate excessive drinking or any drug use. Rudeness, roughness, biting, scratching, or anything that may leave a bruise/blemish/mark on my skin is never tolerated. I will never embarrass you or cause a spectacle during our time together, so I expect the same from you.
If you have chosen to complete screening using references or a P411 account, please have your ID available for inspection upon my arrival.
Hygiene is of the utmost importance. It goes a long way in making a great first impression while demonstrating your respect for my comfort. Good hygiene also ensures we will meet again. There is nothing quite as appealing as a freshly showered man with minty breath. Please ensure your nails have been recently trimmed and any “man-scaping” maintenance has been taken care of beforehand. If you have facial hair, please be sure it is well-groomed and maintained at a reasonable length.
I will always go to great lengths to arrive on time. I kindly ask that you do the same. Our time together starts from the moment we meet. I ask that you please be respectful of my time and not overstay. If you would like to extend our time together, please have the required “in-date extension” donation available.
Let's take care of it right away, so that we can get right to the good stuff! Please, don't put me in the uncomfortable position of having to interrupt our conversation to ask. Your donation should always be given within the first five minutes of our date.
If we're meeting behind closed doors, please place your donation in the bathroom in an unmarked envelope prior to my entrance or shortly after your arrival. If we're meeting in a public place, please place your donation in a card, gift bag, or book for me to enjoy later.
I accept cash and electronic payments, but I am only open to discussing electronic payments with gentlemen I have met with five or more times. Please give me advance notice if you plan to use an electronic payment method. Failure to do so will prompt me to leave and result in blacklisting. There is a 15% surcharge for all donations sent electronically. Your electronic donation should still be sent within the first five minutes of our date.
Donations are for my time and companionship only. Any attempt to haggle over your donation amount will result in the termination of our contact. Any attempt to discuss my donation or illegal activity upon my arrival will prompt me to leave.
Privacy and discretion are my highest priorities. For that reason, I appreciate you not taking photos/videos/recordings of me without my consent during our date. My photos online are blurred for my privacy and safety as well as your discretion when we spend time together in public. Any requests for additional photos will be denied. This also goes for the way I treat your personal information. I will never share your personal details or speak about our time together with anyone else. You can be sure that everything you tell me is in confidence. I ask for the same level of discretion in return. For that reason, I also have a strict no-review policy that enables me to maintain a discrete, exclusive, and professional online presence. If non-disclosure agreements need to be signed, I will do so.
If we are ever to cross paths in public, I will not acknowledge our friendship. I will always make the safe assumption that you would prefer I not approach or acknowledge you. I kindly ask for the same. While you may have a handy explanation for a bystander, I'd prefer we not test my acting skills!
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